Pain.

I've heard people say before "Its okay to tell God how your feeling" As if you need permission, because not only is it "okay" its necessary. Because, God sent his own son, himself in the form of man, to die. The ultimate sacrifice, the greatest thing he could've done. And that's the center of our faith. So, if there was no other way for god, then how can there be any other way for us?

Then he said to the crowd, "If any of you wants to be my follower, you must turn from your selfish ways, take up your cross daily, and follow me. -Luke 9:23

Theres this part in the chronicles of Narnia, This boy has been turned into a dragon, and he goes to the lion and the lion said "if you want to go back to being a human, you have to let me tear your skin off" and so all this time the boy is screaming and hollering, because it hurts. And I think its the same way with us you know? Because if there is no pain, if there's no sacrifice, its not really love. So its OK, to hurt. And its OK to cry. Go ahead. Cry out to God and confess your hurt. Confess your pain. Because it starts there and that's where the healing takes place.